Nicole’s Story Prt 2

At 60 Aunt Marie was a tall, rail thin impeccably dressed woman with close cropped hair and smooth ebony skin. Her features were narrow with the arched eyebrows and sharp cheekbones of a supermodel. She had carefully painted red lips, a brisk manner and the kind of sharp-eyed gaze that dug into you. She certainly looked the part of the successful executive. Nicole had envisioned a warm welcome but the perfunctorily cheek she was offered in greeting dispelled any ideas she had of bonding.

Marie, as she preferred to be called, lived on the second floor of a beautifully appointed two-bedroom brownstone in Prospect Park. Nicole was offered dinner and quizzed about her parents and her flight. The critical way Marie continuously ran her eyes over her as she spoke, gave Nicole the impression that she did not meet with her approval.  For the first time in her life she actually cared what someone thought about her. The feeling rankled, she was not used to feeling intimidated by anyone, but somehow that’s exactly how she felt around Marie!

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Nicole’s Story Prt 1

Born in Jamaica to a half Chinese Jamaican mother and a black Jamaican father, Nicole was the apple of her daddy’s eye and her mother Ivy’s miracle baby. Ivy had long since given up on ever having children, when she found herself pregnant with her first child after ten years of marriage, she couldn’t believe her good fortune.

By the time Nicole turned sixteen she realized that she did not have much in common with girls her age. She spent her free time reading fashion magazines, sketching and designing outlandish costumes. The frivolous pursuits of her schoolmates were of no interest to her.

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Girls Have More Fun

Yes, girls have more fun! well that’s they would have us believe but apparently the fun level has been declining over the years… Wait what?!

In numerous studies females scored higher than males in standard tests of emotion recognition, social sensitivity and empathy. This is a good thing right? yes but apparently those very factors may cause women to suffer from depression! Why? Well from all the unexpressed anger and resentment !

Why are women angry and resentful?

Think of all the relentless social and moral pressure to be empathetic, nurturing and forever cast in the role of caregiver. The real issue here is ‘society’ is it not? we are all so mindful of the ridiculous standards set by ‘society’ that it’s constantly messing with our mental health. It’s ironic that this ‘society’ we live in fear of is people just like us!

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